The complexity of self-love thickens when it comes to the intersectionality of identities
Parental advisory: I might marry a woman I’ve never met
As a kid I really couldn’t be bothered that much, mainly because I had no concept of love or attraction, and turning 20 felt like an eternity away. It wasn’t anything I had to worry about. But then the hormones kicked in
How hypersexualization of bi people excludes them from the LGBTQ+ community
Hypersexualizing bisexual people leaves the out of the communities that surround them
We sent a kink-novice to a Japanese rope bondage workshop
Her arms immediately begin to change colour under the pressure. Within minutes, they become the same deep shade of purple as her bodysuit; it’s a chameleon effect
The aftermath of cheating
One in five people in relationships have cheated on their partner. Experts say it can take years to actually move on
Coming down from the high: what I learned about mental health from BDSM
I knew I was queer. I knew I identified as femme. But I didn’t know if I was a dominant (top), a submissive (bottom), or a pillow princess; I didn’t even know if I was kinky. So I tried to find out
Blurred lines: trials of sexual equality and sex addiction
“Sex is like breathing. It’s a natural process. How can you breathe too much?”
Striking the balance: why we give too much in a relationship
I would call her and cry for forgiveness. She would quietly listen, hang up, and wait for me to call again. And I would